Posted by: jasoncdukes | July 12, 2009

a southern baptist post

I composed this post on two plane rides in one weekend. It’s just a few thoughts that have been swirling in my head and heart provoked by some recent articles I have read from southern baptist leaders and some conversations Dad and others and I have had over the past few months. Here goes…

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My dad has been a southern baptist pastor for almost 50 years. That is my heritage. I’ll admit, I’ve thought a lot about disassociating from southern baptists for various reasons since my college days, but I continue to be compelled to learn from and walk with southern baptist friends and leaders. I am especially thankful for the southern baptist leader that my dad has been. I so respect him and his heart to listen to God and love others. I am also thankful for his heart to love and lead southern baptist leaders, as he has done with the New Orleans Baptist Seminary for nearly 30 years.

Now, I network with and learn from others leaders who are not southern baptist. I certainly am enriched by those relationships, but I must say that my most influential relationships have been with southern baptist pastors and leaders who have generously poured into my life.

I guess I caught my love for the SBC (Southern Baptist Convention) particularly from my dad. It might better be described as a love-hate relationship. That’s probably true for many of us involved with southern baptist sub-culture. Like the SBC or not, I believe in and am passionate about three specific core values that southern baptists have held for a long time now.

1 – Teach the Bible. 2 – Associate autonomously. 3 – Serve cooperatively.

Dr. Chuck Kelley, president of New Orleans Baptist Seminary, should he proud of me for remembering one of the key stories he told his students in evangelism class. The story was set in 1906. I don’t remember the guy’s name, but I do remember what he boldly stood for and reminded the convention crowd of that day. He reminded them, in the midst of a season of Biblical wavering and power grabs, that the convention was founded on these basic core values I’ve mentioned above. Mainly the Bible and autonomy.

When it comes to teaching the Bible, we will never lack for something to teach. God has preserved a letter of His great love for and interaction with us. We have plenty to learn from and share from within it. And we must surrender all of our systems of theology and preferential thinking to the premises of His living Word. Jesus called Himself truth, and as the embodiment of that living Word, His truth should shape our values, theology, and ministry practices.

Associating autonomously is to me one of the most distinct characteristics of the SBC. Technically, we are not a hierarchical denomination like all others. We are instead a lot of local expressions of the church who relate together to love the culture we live among. At least ideally.

The cooperative program was founded with a cooperative spirit. That spirit has not always prevailed, admittedly. However, it remains the heart and hope of those who see the beauty of SBC ministry throughout our nation and our world.

I believe in and am passionate about these central values of the SBC. I know I am not alone. I believe they still matter. 

We live in an interesting time as southern baptists. It is an SBC day of both great commision resurgence and inwardly-focused churches, visionary leaders and power struggles, open dialogue and alleged cover-ups, theological debates and individual-slandering, missional-emphasis and mission-board turmoil. I guess it’s nothing new. New or rerun, these core values remain as important today as ever.

As someone interested in remaining faithful to learning and living the ways of Jesus alongside fellow southern baptists, I want to make two suggestions to the current leadership of the SBC. I am sharing this at an important time as those leaders look to reorganize and reprioritize. I really have no idea whether anyone in leadership will ever see this post. Nonetheless, I felt compelled to write it. If these suggestions are worth considering, I pray they will be helpful. If not, they probably won’t be read anyway.

1st suggestion_MENTOR YOUNG LEADERS AT ALL TIMES SO THEY CAN TAKE THE BATON FROM YOU AT ANY TIME NECESSARY.

There is a Biblical mandate to make disciples. It’s not just for the pastors and convention leaders. It’s for every follower of Christ. It does, however, certainly include the convention leader. I’ve asked a few folks who are considered “convention leaders” if they would say that it is a common occurrence for convention leaders to be actively discipling young leaders for the purpose of readying them to take convention leadership when the time would arise. The answer has been no across the board.

If we truly have a heart to resurge the great commission and foster a cooperative spirit, then that would of course include daily discipling the next generation of leaders and in turn handing off leadership to them over time rather than when our position comes to an end.

Does the leader of the executive committee have several young leaders he is mentoring for convention leadership? Does the head of the state convention? The president of the Seminary? IMB? NAMB? The local association? The local church pastor? If not, we all should.

If not, then how seriously do we really take the great commission?

It has been said lately that God does not need the SBC. That is true. However, men who follow God continue to give energy and continue to sacrifice family time to lead the SBC. If they see the SBC as a vital part of the mission and movement of God that Jesus called His church, but they don’t mentor the next generation of leaders to take their place, one would wonder how much they really value the convention’s role in the resurgence of the great commission.

I’m not trying to be critical here. Just making a suggestion. Put your money where your mouth is. Bring on young leaders to learn from you and give input to you. Give the chance to lead and learn and fail and succeed, coaching them along the way. This is a must if you hope for the SBC and the Cooperative Program to continue to stay strong into the future.

2nd suggestion_DECENTRALIZE LEADERSHIP TO MAXIMIZE IMPACT.

Autonomy still matters. If it does, lead like it. Lead like Jesus. He had the guts to hand off a global mission to a bunch of diverse, seemingly ill-prepared, got-my-own-ideas-about-this-kingdom stuff men. And the movement called “church” continues.

A serious question looms. Why, among current leadership, does there seem to be a sense of needing to control ideals and strategies and partnerships? It’s as if the movement that continues will be lost unless it is protected by the right men. It’s as if the way to move the SBC forward lies in preserving what was fought so hard for in the 80s to protect. This makes no sense, because preserving life does not beget new life. Giving life does. Preserving something’s current existence leads to stagnancy. Stagnancy will not spur on the restorative mission of the great commission. Resurgence does not happen when controlling SBC development is the focus. Releasing instead of retaining does.

After all, I didn’t think that the movement of convention organizations determined the direction of the SBC. I thought the movement of the local church did. I didn’t think convention leaders, in their committees, had any power other than the power that is present when they give themselves away to serve and resource local churches and local leaders engaged in the very powerful ministries that happen in their local communities. Or am I to understand autonomy differently.

Jesus decentralized. And current leadership must, as well. After all, Jesus’ movement is not dependent on the preferences of one specific group of religious leaders. It’s much bigger than that. Much bigger than them. And as convention leadership does what convention leadership was originally intended to do – relate, serve, dream with, support, trust, decentralize – then and only then will they get in on the movement, too. Cause it’s happening.

The bride of Christ continues to be the beauty the Groom adorned her to be among our world. She is not waiting for one or two or three groups to declare her beautiful or correct or sound or on the right mission. And while convention leaders too often centralize efforts in order to act on a power that was never intended to be theirs in the first place, the decentralized movement of the church moves onward and outward without them.

If someone who is a convention leader actually reads this, I hope you will hear these suggestions from a heart that cares about the future involvement of the SBC in this movement Jesus called church, not from a haggler criticizing a group of men with whom my own Father associates. I am grateful to those men and for the leadership they provide. 

And thanks, Dad. Thanks for all the people you have mentored and released through the years. The evidence is HUGE. Since Mom and Dad were in the accident back in April, the response has overwhelmingly indicated a resurgence of great commission followers and leaders who have poured out love to the man and his wife who so freely poured out all they had into those young leaders.

May we all join the original surgence. And may the convention leaders pour into those involved and serve those already carrying out the great commission in their local contexts.

Posted by: jasoncdukes | July 7, 2009

at the races…

The July 4th Coke Zero 400 at Daytona International Speedway was Caleb’s 6th NASCAR race to attend. He has been at one Nationwide race (the level below the Sprint Cup), and five Sprint Cup races. All of this may be completely foreign to you. It was to us about two and a half years ago. But now, due to Caleb’s passion for the sport and the drivers and the strategy and the creation of various tracks in his room, it is very much a part of our family.

Katey and Abby talk about drivers and race with Caleb in his room. Caleb is more knowledgeable about the sport than most commentators on TV. Jen even talks about it. Even about bump-drafting and safety barriers and HANS devices. Those are words that have come our of her mouth. Prior to February 2007, Jen and I both had no idea what a HANS device is. 

It’s been a fast learning lap and a whole lot of fun. 

In case you have never been to a race, which I highly recommend, let me give you an audio sample of it. The clip you are about to hear was recorded on my phone. When it begins, the cars are halfway around the track from us. You will hear the announcers for about 15 or more seconds. Then, all of a sudden, the roar of forty-three 800 horsepower engines humming by 14 rows below us on the 2.5 mile track that is Daytona International Speedway. Click the link, then press play. To return to read and see the rest, just hit your back button.

the sounds of the Coke Zero 400

Caleb and his friends Cole and James and their daddies and I went to the race together. It was a blast. All of us got to hang in the garage area and near pit road and in the infield before the race. The kids absolutely enjoyed it. Our seats were great. Our time together was very memorable. Thanks for a great Saturday Jamie and Chris! Sure do love you guys. 

Here are a few pics from this past Saturday night’s race in Daytona. One of which I am really proud of – a panoramic of pit road. Appropriately, there are 24 (like the #24 driver Caleb loves so much).

 

Here’s that panoramic one. Dig this pic a lot:

a view from the front of the lineup of the cars on pit road!!!

a view from the front of the lineup of the cars on pit road!!!

Posted by: jasoncdukes | July 2, 2009

here’s to Mom’s recovery…

My mother-in-law, Kathleen, sent this to my wife and me. It is very touching and powerful, not to mention that these kids sing great. Thanks so much Mom Albert for the “mom” you are to me and for sending this on. It meant a lot.

Hope yall enjoy. 

Posted by: jasoncdukes | July 2, 2009

preaching “godliness” is not good enough

I’m not picking a fight with anyone here. I’m just saying. Church culture must stop doing what Jesus told the Pharisees to stop doing – preaching “godliness” as good enough. 

Do this. Don’t do that. Do this at least three times a day. Don’t do that ever, especially if it is rated R. Do this every morning for four hours or you are not practicing your spiritual disciplines. Don’t do that – don’t you know that dancing will get that girl pregnant. 

You think I’m kidding. If you have never heard that stuff in church culture, then you are blessed. 

Here’s the problem. Preachers have taught that if you do this good stuff, then you will godly, and you will be blessed. When this type of behavioral modification is preached, and when “spiritual disciplines” are preached as change agents for godliness, and when “favor” is proclaimed as the reward, then people begin to expect results that are rewarding. They begin to expect to be rewarded for their “goodness.” They begin to hold God like He owes them something. Maybe not consciously. But they really don’t know they are doing it until tragedy strikes.

Then, they walk away from Him, disappointed at Him when they should be disappointed in the false teachers who sold them religion instead of the Gospel of the God who came near and wants to walk with them.

Furthermore, Jesus wouldn’t even take the compliment “good.” He said only God the Father is good. He also rebuked the religious leaders who were showboating godliness but taking all the credit. 

Only God can make someone “godly.” It’s not self-made. It’s not a reward. It’s not the result of a certain type of living. If it was, then Jesus died needlessly. 

Further-furthermore, the only spiritual discipline Jesus ever spoke of was in Luke 9:23. Denying me and surrendering to God’s mission for my life. That’s how Jesus defined following Him. And taking up a cross is no “reward” that marketers can spin into a sell. It means death. Not favor. Not a good parking place.

Instead of preaching “godliness,” what if we preached following Jesus? What if we preached trusting Him, that what He did was enough for me “to be made right” or to be “godly” enough? What if we called people to die to themselves and commit to the mission God intended for them, even if it means literal death. Even if it means not being safe and getting “what God owes me” for my godliness. 

Matt Chandler puts it well in this video clip:

May we quit highlighting responsibilities and expectations and encourage people to walk with Jesus daily, responding to Him and living in expectancy of where He will lead them next. Of whom He will lead them to love next. Not do and don’t. More a who type of thing. Loving God and loving people type of stuff. Living in freedom from responsibilities and expectations that we falter in and grow weary in. Living in the fullness of a life yoked up with Him.

Sounds weird to even say it, but may your goal not just be godliness. May it be, instead, to know God. He’s pretty godly. Enough for the both of us.

Posted by: jasoncdukes | July 1, 2009

sharing with all who have need

It’s an amazing description of the 1st century church from the book of Acts in the New Testament. They treated everything they had as though it was not their own. Check out this modern day version from this brief news report by CNN:

Church Gives Fresh Meaning to ‘Offering’ Plate

Most churches have church members put offerings into the collection plate – but one church has decided to do it backwards, CNN reports. Pastor Toby Slough at Cross Timbers Community Church in Texas told his congregation to take what they needed from the plate earlier this year, hoping to ease financial stress. When the church collected the plates again though, they found that the church had had its highest offering ever. Since that Sunday, Slough and his church have given away a half-million dollars to members, non-members, missions and local groups. “In these economic times, we can’t be so into church business that we forget what our business is, and that is to help people,” Slough told CNN television affiliate KDAF in Dallas-Forth Worth, Texas.

How will we truly share with all who have need during this trying economic time?

Posted by: jasoncdukes | June 30, 2009

i know father’s day was over a week ago, but…

…this really resonates with me. I have a son and three daughters. We have a lot of silly time together. We have a lot of “practice what they are passionate about” time together. This is a must-see video for dads. Enjoy.

Posted by: jasoncdukes | June 30, 2009

positivity vs. reality

I ask it a lot to people. “How are you doing?” It has become a greeting of sorts in most settings. It’s kind of funny, isn’t it? I see people ask it, while walking past each other, with no intention to stop and listen for a response. I guess it’s a non-question question. Kind of like when people who do answer say, “Fine. I’m fine.” What they really mean to say is, “Life stinks right now. But I’m going to tell you fine, because I would be fine if we didn’t talk.”

Up front, I am not writing this directed at anyone. So, please, all you folks out there who have gone above and beyond to show love to our family, don’t even think – “I wonder if Jason is talking about me? Have I asked him how he was but not stopped to listen? Did I tell him fine when he asked me and blew him off? Ohhhhh! My day is ruined. I am not sure if I did or not.” Seriously, I am not writing this directed at anyone, so for those who may have even leaned toward thinking that, let not your heart be troubled. 

I’m writing it directed at me.

Last night, when I was getting Dad settled to hit the hay, he was venting to me. I am good with that. We vent to each other. I had asked him earlier how he was feeling. He was answering me. Being honest about how he is actually feeling – physically, emotionally, relationally, about Mom, about guys who drive SUVs without a license, about situations that frustrate him. 

At one point, he was telling me about the pain in his legs. He had mentioned several things, and without even meaning to sound like a “PolyAnna,” I did. I retorted – “At least you can walk, Pop.”

He didn’t appreciate the comment. 

You know, if you ask someone how they are doing, them answering honestly is a good thing. Me responding with a positive, general statement, attempting to fix their perspective to see all the roses that are lying around that they are overlooking, is not a good thing. 

Dad wasn’t not being positive. He was being real. People sharing hurts and burdens is ok. I know that. I encourage it and appreciate it in all the people I do life in.  I didn’t mean to respond that way to Dad. But I did. I apologized. He accepted. We’re still friends.

Here’s the obvious lesson – when you ask people how they are doing, don’t mistake their response of reality as a response of negativity and attempt to fix them. Listen. Look them in the eye. Be there. That’s encouragement, too, and sometimes is enough.

Reality for Mom is this – she is more than likely going to be a “new Retia.” And that’s okay. It absolutely stinks, but it is what it is. I am not thankful that my kids won’t know Ammaw the way she was anymore. I am thankful they will get to know her all over again. I am not thankful that Mom will likely not hold our kids any more. I am thankful they will sit in her lap, though. And I am praying for her mind and body to be as restored as it can be following a collision with a red Ford Expedition. 

Most people don’t move much after that.

We are waiting to hear word on when her cranium piece will be replaced. Therapy continues. Progress is steady but slow. Mom is not eating much and needs to eat more. Her swallowing is getting better and better. Her bedsore has a long, long way to go to heal. Still an inch and a half deep. But it is getting better. 

Not trying to sound crude, but if you want to pray for something that would really make Mom happy, pray she will be able to sit on a potty chair soon. That would make her feel positive. For real.

Love all of you. Gonna take Dad to his favorite restaurant tonight – Drago’s. Gonna take Mom some mashed sweet potatoes from Copeland’s after that. She usually eats most of those. Who wouldn’t?

We’ll post at you later. In fact, I think Dad wants to post tonight or tomorrow. That’s always a good thing.
-jason

Posted by: jasoncdukes | June 23, 2009

the boot gets the boot!!!

 

We just got out of Dad’s orthopedic doctor appointment. Last night, Dad told me this:

I hope he tells me to get rid of the boot and the walker. 

He got what he wished for. Dad’s legs are healing. Long way to go to be fully healed, but they’ve definitely come a long way. The boot is off and the walker will probably be no more by at least tomorrow if not sooner. I will have to GoogleMap a medical supply to get Dad a cane. 

I never thought he would be a stubborn, old man with a cane this early, but why not! 

Here are a few pics.

 

Dad taking the boot off.

Dad taking the boot off.

 

 

 

throwing the boot in the back of the truck!!!

throwing the boot in the back of the truck!!!

 

there it goes!!!

there it goes!!!

the boot got the boot.

the boot got the boot.

 

 

 

Well, off to eat lunch, take Dad to therapy, and then to see Mom. I’ll post again soon!

Posted by: jasoncdukes | June 22, 2009

Healer.

It would be an understatement to say I want Mom to return to how she was before the accident. I believe that God can heal her and that she can recover to that point. It seems like a long way from now. A very long way. 

It feels like it is going to be as long as the DenBesten’s must have felt. Kris and Robin were shocked on Christmas Eve 2008 when doctors told them that their 9 year old daughter’s heart had calcified. It was the effect of something she had been born with – something unbeknownst to them up to that point. 

It would be a long shot, but she would need a heart transplant. She lived with a Berlin Heart for some time. Then, on April 15th, 2009, she received a new heart. That new heart took to Gracyn’s body, and she is returning to a life more like most 9 year old girls. 

Gracyn sang of the Healer God at worship gathering for First Baptist Church of Orlando yesterday. I believe, along with her, that God is our healer. He can heal Mom. I am praying to that end. Whether in the now or inside of eternity, Mom will be whole again. I am trusting either way. Hopeful for the now.

Here’s Gracyn singing a song to the Healer of her heart. I pray we will all know Him as the healer of our hearts, as well.

Posted by: jasoncdukes | June 14, 2009

the week with Pop.

I am so thankful that Jen and the kids were with me this week while I was up in New Orleans taking care of Mom and Dad. It was a special time. Here are some highlight pictures. Enjoy.

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